Personal and Professional Stories of A Working Human

Sex as self harm (trigger warning)

I like sex, it makes me happy when it’s with the right person or people.  I also self harm by cutting, or receiving bruises or many other things, although cutting … Continue reading

November 23, 2015 · 1 Comment

Every time I turn around

I find that the laws that are put forward to “protect sex workers” are some of the most awful laws in existence.  Do you know what sex workers need.  No … Continue reading

August 25, 2015 · 2 Comments

Sex workers are people

I have been through good times and bad times as a sex worker.  I have been through self realization moments where I realized I was worth something.  Where I realized … Continue reading

July 31, 2015 · Leave a comment

The final stretch

I am almost done with my degree, which is fantastic.  I will probably still be doing cam and phone sex for a while until I find a job, but I … Continue reading

July 21, 2015 · 1 Comment

Depression, confusing shit, and bastards

My ex is being a bit of a bastard.  So I’ve been even more depressed than usual, and I’ve been kind of hiding.  I want to make it clear that … Continue reading

May 5, 2015 · Leave a comment

Finishing up school

I have been working my ass off (no pun intended) to finish up school, and to pay for school and housing (etc.) so I’ve been so busy.  I have a … Continue reading

March 29, 2015 · 2 Comments

Sex and Me

For whatever reason, I love sex.  I love sex with different people, I love finding what works with certain people.  I’m a mostly nonmonogomous person who enjoys having sex with … Continue reading

March 13, 2015 · 2 Comments

Love hurts

Being in love is super weird.  Some days I’m like “hey I would give up my sex work to be with you” then my brain corrects me and says, “you … Continue reading

March 1, 2015 · 1 Comment

GQ hired a woman to attend A Voice for Men’s conference last year in hopes she’d be raped, creepy AVFMer charges

Originally posted on we hunted the mammoth:
Sage Gerard: Totally not a creep In his must-read GQ story on A Voice for Men’s conference last summer, Jeff Sharlet detailed an…

March 1, 2015 · Leave a comment

Assumptions and bullshit

No one can know why an entire group of people (even if they aren’t a group but are lumped together because of our ideas about labeling people) does something, because … Continue reading

February 18, 2015 · 1 Comment

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