Personal and Professional Stories of A Working Human

Sex and Me

For whatever reason, I love sex.  I love sex with different people, I love finding what works with certain people.  I’m a mostly nonmonogomous person who enjoys having sex with … Continue reading

March 13, 2015 · 2 Comments

Love hurts

Being in love is super weird.  Some days I’m like “hey I would give up my sex work to be with you” then my brain corrects me and says, “you … Continue reading

March 1, 2015 · 1 Comment

GQ hired a woman to attend A Voice for Men’s conference last year in hopes she’d be raped, creepy AVFMer charges

Originally posted on we hunted the mammoth:
Sage Gerard: Totally not a creep In his must-read GQ story on A Voice for Men’s conference last summer, Jeff Sharlet detailed an…

March 1, 2015 · Leave a comment

Assumptions and bullshit

No one can know why an entire group of people (even if they aren’t a group but are lumped together because of our ideas about labeling people) does something, because … Continue reading

February 18, 2015 · 1 Comment

Pickup guru Roosh V: End rape by making it legal

Originally posted on we hunted the mammoth:
Roosh V: End rape by legalizing it “Game” guru Roosh Valizadeh is tired of hearing that “men can stop rape.” As far as…

February 18, 2015 · Leave a comment

Happy New Year!

I know how hopeless it is for most people to make new years resolutions, however I believe in setting an intention for the new year.  In fact I enjoy setting … Continue reading

January 8, 2015 · 1 Comment

Is there some memo that I missed?

I get these emails or tweets or blogs replies, and honestly I’m starting to get very doubtful that any of these people have ever worked in the sex industry.  I … Continue reading

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

There is no freedom as long as women are being raped

Originally posted on glosswatch:
One week in November. BBC Radio DJ Nick Conrad tells women that they are “partially responsible” for rape because “it’s very difficult for many men to…

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

Working well with others

Sometimes I hate having to work with other people.  I am so panicky.  I just want to work for myself with a client, one-on-one.  I’m not good in social situations. … Continue reading

September 20, 2014 · Leave a comment

Feminists talking about how gross women are…”

…who are sex workers.  Feminism isn’t about putting down other women.  Just FYI for those fucking assholes out there saying shit like “don’t say “whore” but that bitch is a … Continue reading

August 17, 2014 · 4 Comments

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