Personal and Professional Stories of A Working Human

Depression, confusing shit, and bastards

My ex is being a bit of a bastard.  So I’ve been even more depressed than usual, and I’ve been kind of hiding.  I want to make it clear that … Continue reading

May 5, 2015 · Leave a comment

Finishing up school

I have been working my ass off (no pun intended) to finish up school, and to pay for school and housing (etc.) so I’ve been so busy.  I have a … Continue reading

March 29, 2015 · 2 Comments

Sex and Me

For whatever reason, I love sex.  I love sex with different people, I love finding what works with certain people.  I’m a mostly nonmonogomous person who enjoys having sex with … Continue reading

March 13, 2015 · 2 Comments

Love hurts

Being in love is super weird.  Some days I’m like “hey I would give up my sex work to be with you” then my brain corrects me and says, “you … Continue reading

March 1, 2015 · 1 Comment

GQ hired a woman to attend A Voice for Men’s conference last year in hopes she’d be raped, creepy AVFMer charges

Originally posted on we hunted the mammoth:
Sage Gerard: Totally not a creep In his must-read GQ story on A Voice for Men’s conference last summer, Jeff Sharlet detailed an…

March 1, 2015 · Leave a comment

Assumptions and bullshit

No one can know why an entire group of people (even if they aren’t a group but are lumped together because of our ideas about labeling people) does something, because … Continue reading

February 18, 2015 · 1 Comment

Pickup guru Roosh V: End rape by making it legal

Originally posted on we hunted the mammoth:
Roosh V: End rape by legalizing it “Game” guru Roosh Valizadeh is tired of hearing that “men can stop rape.” As far as…

February 18, 2015 · Leave a comment

Happy New Year!

I know how hopeless it is for most people to make new years resolutions, however I believe in setting an intention for the new year.  In fact I enjoy setting … Continue reading

January 8, 2015 · 1 Comment

Is there some memo that I missed?

I get these emails or tweets or blogs replies, and honestly I’m starting to get very doubtful that any of these people have ever worked in the sex industry.  I … Continue reading

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

There is no freedom as long as women are being raped

Originally posted on glosswatch:
One week in November. BBC Radio DJ Nick Conrad tells women that they are “partially responsible” for rape because “it’s very difficult for many men to…

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

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