Personal and Professional Stories of A Working Human

Happy New Year!

I know how hopeless it is for most people to make new years resolutions, however I believe in setting an intention for the new year.  In fact I enjoy setting … Continue reading

January 8, 2015 · 1 Comment

Is there some memo that I missed?

I get these emails or tweets or blogs replies, and honestly I’m starting to get very doubtful that any of these people have ever worked in the sex industry.  I … Continue reading

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

There is no freedom as long as women are being raped

Originally posted on glosswatch:
One week in November. BBC Radio DJ Nick Conrad tells women that they are “partially responsible” for rape because “it’s very difficult for many men to…

November 22, 2014 · Leave a comment

Working well with others

Sometimes I hate having to work with other people.  I am so panicky.  I just want to work for myself with a client, one-on-one.  I’m not good in social situations. … Continue reading

September 20, 2014 · Leave a comment

Feminists talking about how gross women are…”

…who are sex workers.  Feminism isn’t about putting down other women.  Just FYI for those fucking assholes out there saying shit like “don’t say “whore” but that bitch is a … Continue reading

August 17, 2014 · 4 Comments

Sex workers and drug users/ illegal

There is a lot of crime where I live, it is very economically depressed and there is just a ton of meth about.  It seems ridiculous to me that marijuana … Continue reading

August 3, 2014 · 1 Comment

Repeating myself, but I just don’t get bigots.

Doesn’t it strike most people as strange that the country that we live in (if you live in the US) makes things illegal, or refused to make things legal, that … Continue reading

July 4, 2014 · 2 Comments

Principle, practice and ‘not all men’

Originally posted on Sometimes, it's just a cigar:
@prisonerben and I had a discussion last night about, in effect, the utility of insisting that not all men are rapists.…

May 26, 2014 · 1 Comment

Let me walk you through my typical day as a sex worker

I’m not sure what you imagine sex workers do, but here’s what I do.  And I’d say my experience isn’t all that unique.   I wake up at 6-6:30am, take … Continue reading

May 2, 2014 · 7 Comments

What is your fucking problem?

I sometimes marvel at the fact that people can come at me and say what I do deserves disrespect or stigma, and then in the same breath they will defend … Continue reading

May 2, 2014 · 3 Comments

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