Personal and Professional Stories of A Working Human

Principle, practice and ‘not all men’

May 26, 2014 · 1 Comment

Let me walk you through my typical day as a sex worker

I’m not sure what you imagine sex workers do, but here’s what I do.  And I’d say my experience isn’t all that unique.   I wake up at 6-6:30am, take … Continue reading

May 2, 2014 · 7 Comments

What is your fucking problem?

I sometimes marvel at the fact that people can come at me and say what I do deserves disrespect or stigma, and then in the same breath they will defend … Continue reading

May 2, 2014 · 3 Comments

This is what’s wrong with the sex work conversation

“Why would you choose to do sex work when so many people are forced into it?  Underage kids, and women who are sex slaves?” “I don’t know, why do you … Continue reading

March 22, 2014 · 1 Comment

I regret reporting my rape

Do you know what happens when you report a rape?  I’ll tell you my story.  Since that’s the one I know best.  This is a very short and edited version … Continue reading

February 26, 2014 · 4 Comments

Legalization, the police, decriminalization, the feds.

I support legalization or decriminalization.   There was a story recently about a local man who was robbed of his marijuana and a shit load of guns.  Because it’s legal … Continue reading

February 2, 2014 · 4 Comments

The things we do for love

Not for romantic love.  Not for the hetero relationship I’m supposed to have with the husband I sort of have, that will please mine and his parents.  No, not that … Continue reading

October 11, 2013 · Leave a comment

I’m a real boy!

Sometimes I feel like every person I pass, on the internet or in my everyday life, I have to shout at them to recognize that I’m capable of making my … Continue reading

September 11, 2013 · Leave a comment

That Was the Week That Was (#336)

The Honest Courtesan The Swedish model, in its mission to eradicate sex work, is by definition an unapologetic mission to eradicate sex workers.  –  Nine A War for Peace …a … Continue reading

September 7, 2013 · Leave a comment

More whorephobia and misdirects from the anti-sex work crowd

If you haven’t already seen this movie, I suggest you watch it.  Because that’s what this post is about. Do you know why this makes me so angry?  It’s … Continue reading

September 1, 2013 · 12 Comments

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